"Maybe the past is like an anchor holding us back … Maybe, you have to let go of who you were to become who you will be."
~ Carrie Bradshaw.

Sunday, December 16, 2012

"The Fuck Buddy."

We've all got a pattern ... What is yours? We walk around, reminding ourselves to be cautious the next time we meet a girl. You think you have learned a valuable lesson from your earlier relationships and things will be different this time around - But mysteriously enough, you wind up ultimately making the same mistakes you said you wouldn't, breaking the promise to yourself of not getting hurt this time around. It appears as if though we are doomed to meeting these girls who are either not completely over their ex-boyfriends or they simply don't know what they feel for us or what it is that they want. Needless to say, it's always a confusing disappointment of the heart. 

I couldn't help but wonder ... Are we all simply victims to unconditioned responses - Doomed to repeat the same unconscious relationship patterns? Are we all ultimately dating the same person over and over again if you really get to thinking about it? If this is the case, should we really try to break these patterns, and simply date a girl who isn't really our type ... Or will that wind up being an even bigger disappointment?

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