"Maybe the past is like an anchor holding us back … Maybe, you have to let go of who you were to become who you will be."
~ Carrie Bradshaw.

Monday, January 2, 2012

"Sex And The Small Town."

We don't always know what we want in a relationship. It really depends how that "first date" goes. Oh the infamous first date. You get that certain feeling that only occurs when you are on that first date kind of high. Then what happens at least seventy percent of the time ( I consider myself very generous using that percentage. ) you're terribly disappointed? From Cloud 9 down back onto the pavement, boom! It appears it's just one awful first date after another. We wonder where exactly it is we're going...What has happened to the excitement in dating? Has it now become more of a sport to find a person that you really have a solid connection with?

Many are in on the date for the typical one night stand. With false hope, we find ourselves caving in. Really expecting a phone call the next day, we're somehow shocked when the phone doesn't ring. We need to be sure our outlook on modern dating is as clear as possible, take what we know and venture into the dating world. Prepared for the ups and downs that it brings to the table. The dating world is humongous and riddled with players there solely to play there games. But if you can find the smaller group of individuals that are truly interested in a serious relationship, then you are one of the lucky ones. It's a jungle out there. Until we find 'the one', has and is dating just becoming a game?