"I Can't Find The Time To Tell You."

Are the words you feel a foggy mist surrounding you everywhere you go in life? Simply put, you can't find the time to tell somebody how you truly feel? You're either tangled in work among other stuff, or the plain fear of those possible outcomes of feelings intimidate you? Tomorrow, next week and next month, are all of the time mechanisms we use to avoid our feelings, and avoid total disappointment or rejection. Although men try, are we trying hard enough?

You could write a novel of feelings with 1,000 pages but you can't utter a word to this gal within 1,000 ages. Once a man reaches a particular age and a particular number of relationships which had not worked out, "Baby, I can't find the time to tell you..." simply doesn't cut it anymore. There's a deadline on communicating, it's the unspoken Rule of Love. There are times where something, a promotion, an untapped relationship slips away out of your grasp before you had grabbed a hold and explored all the possibilities and opportunities. It, like a boat released from the shackles of an anchor, has set sail without you.

When all these things occur, a guy has to ask, "Did I try hard enough?" ... After heavy realizations, "No" may be the answer. There'll be a guilt period, and you might hate yourself for a while, for not grabbing a hold of the opportunity of a successful relationship and true love. And you'll ask, "Was that conflicting time lot living or procrastinating?" The Verdict : Avoid the total disaster and FIND the time. Whatever it means to you, a guy must let go of the Coulda, Shoulda, Woulda, buckle up and keep going; Trust me, I know.