"Maybe the past is like an anchor holding us back … Maybe, you have to let go of who you were to become who you will be."
~ Carrie Bradshaw.

Saturday, June 8, 2013

"Fear Factor."

I couldn't help but wonder ... If giving a lucky gal the key to your Small-Town apartment means unlocking those doors to truly great sex and mouthwatering home-cooked meals, why are these countless men hesitant in taking their relationships to the next level and entering those doors of happiness and pleasure? We're all ignoring these opportunities with great women 'cause the fear of being 'tied down' lurks in the night. But, let's not hunch for a conclusion regarding something we know very little about in retrospect. Everything deserves a fair shot, and we're ultimately refusing ourselves any romantic satisfaction by avoiding commitment and running from compromise. And who knows, maybe you'll see yourself tied up and not down after everything plays out for the relationship. Who doesn't enjoy that every once in awhile, Townies? Splurge; It's all about the happiness, the spark and the spice of the love. Chase that 'cause fear is not a factor for you, or your fate.

1 comment:

  1. Great insight ... These short posts are terrific!
    Could you sometime in the nearer future write a post which questions, "Are there still things in a relationship that one should never say?"?...
    ...I could use a light being shed on that topic. Thank you for everything!
    -Matthew.

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