"Maybe the past is like an anchor holding us back … Maybe, you have to let go of who you were to become who you will be."
~ Carrie Bradshaw.

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

"Lights, Camera, Relationship."

Supposedly, younger girls aren't threatened by a strong man having power ... Is it a whole generation, or only the one's you wind up encountering? As men's roles begin to change and evolve, we're left to assume that women's are too. There are hundreds upon hundreds of articles written about the new gal - But in actuality, does she exist? Perhaps, she's still the old gal, renamed and repackaged by some clever P.R man. Are the women of today less threatened by the power of men, or are they just acting?
 
Here's a thought ... Maybe women aren't the one's threatened by the power of a man. Perhaps, we're the one's who're threatened, threatened by our own power. If you've got a whole lot of money, there's always a lurking possibility when you get romantically involved with somebody that their incentive to be in the relationship isn't love, but it is all of the things you have to offer them. This's very rough. Sometimes, the ulterior motives of others are instantaneously distinguishable - While for others, they've got bluffing genuineness and sincerity down to a science. Of course everyone's true colors shine through at some point in time, via a mistake or slipup that's presumably unintended. Contingent on how attached to this individual you were ultimately decides the degree of heartache you will suffer along the journey of picking up the pieces once more, and starting over yet again ... If you've been nothing but a cash cow to somebody that you love with all of your heart, it's imperative you let go, end the relationship. You're not a ATM machine, you're a being with feelings who deserves all of the love they give in return - The one thing liquid assets can't be converted into is precious time, time that'd be way better spent finding yourself and that one woman who'll love you, and not for your bank statement but for your heart.

It's always tough to bounce back from a bad breakup ... But I believe something like this is one of the most tough. After this experience, the nagging thoughts that were once in the back of our minds, thoughts that women are with us for what we can offer them besides our hearts thrust into the forefront of our minds. This stirs up an utter lack of trust and makes us struggle with our power, the same power which threatens us with heartbreak, when we get romantically involved with a woman...

2 comments:

  1. It's not a great thing, but can't deny the truth...
    ...10/10 ; Really great post no doubt.
    -Henry.

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