'Ya know, I'm not positive that I believe in belonging with somebody, destiny, fate ... When you're young, you scribble up these makeshift 'Fortune Tellers', randomly choose a couple numbers and there's your future carved in stone. However, I do think we're capable of falling in and out of love with multiple girls within our lifetime, and being equally happy with completely different women. Maybe, there are those particular girls we feel we "belong with", thinking that we must take that chance with or we'll miss out on something valuable.
Those gut feelings don't necessarily insinuate that she's "The One" for you but there's something else meant there. What's the fallback, or the 'Plan B', in the event a guy goes without receiving his opportunity? Whether it's the gal and she's not being receptive and resisting, or the feelings aren't matching and this "fate" isn't going anywhere productive, and that's that.
You see, Small-Townies, we've got all the abilities for preparing our own fate ... Rearranging, Remastering, Restyling, whatever, and makin' our own lives our personal definition of fabulous regardless of anything and everything. It's not our 'Predestined Fate', serving time for a crime. God and the Stars don't envision that shit. That's all us! Rough times, stupidity, a thrill, vengeance ... Those bring you to crime.
We're printing our fates hot off the press shooting a thing down, not attending a particular event pretending you had not received the invitation, or throwing an ex-girlfriend into your voicemail. It's something flickering inside us. It's the same for mates and a relationship. We can choose to "belong" to any woman. We'll take a shot, going for broke and check if we hit the target. If you don't, maybe you'll hit a different one, or try again.
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